
Winning the Argument While Losing Your Heart
Sometimes being right can make us blind to what is happening in our own heart. This post looks at pride, truth, humility, and why a clean heart matters more than winning the argument.

Sometimes being right can make us blind to what is happening in our own heart. This post looks at pride, truth, humility, and why a clean heart matters more than winning the argument.

Christians are called to seek wise counsel, but there is a difference between pursuing wisdom and pursuing validation. Through Scripture and personal experience, this article explores how believers can discern godly advice, avoid unhealthy dependence on human approval, and ultimately trust God as their source of wisdom.

Not every opinion needs a response. Not every argument needs your energy. And not every bit of noise around you is something God asked you to carry. This post is about learning to protect the peace God is building in you.

When my life fell apart, I lost friends, my reputation, and even my freedom. Yet through wise counselors, unexpected friendships in jail, and a deeper understanding of Christ’s suffering, God transformed my heart and taught me compassion for the broken.

I didn’t know how much noise I was carrying until God started teaching me to enjoy quiet. This post is about prayer, peace, answered prayers, and learning to make room for God in ordinary moments.

Envy rarely looks the way people think it does. Sometimes it shows up as distance, resentment, tension, and emotional walls that slowly spread through an entire family. This post is a hard but honest look at jealousy, unresolved hurt, and the damage bitterness can do when it’s left unchecked — especially to the children and grandchildren caught in the middle.

Grandchildren have a way of breaking through every wall we’ve built. Their love, trust, joy, and need for us can quietly teach us something powerful about the heart of God.

Biblical truth was never meant to stay on the page. Real faith shows up in the seconds between what happens to us and how we respond. This post is about learning to live Scripture in everyday life, not just read it.

You forgave them. At least you thought you did. But some wounds don’t stay buried quietly, and forgiveness is rarely as simple as people make it sound.

I prayed for patience. God didn’t hand it to me — He built it into me one humbling moment at a time. Here’s what that looked like.