Category: Divorce & Separation

Even at the End, My Marriage Vows Still Matter

Even at the End, My Vows Still Matter

What does it mean to honor your marriage vows when the marriage is ending? A personal reflection on sickness and health, unanswered questions, biblical abandonment, reconciliation, and choosing mercy even while letting go.

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This Was Never Supposed to Be My Story

This Was Never Supposed to Be My Story

I thought I knew how my story was supposed to go: marriage, children, career, family, and growing old together. Then life changed. This is what I’m learning about loss, bitterness, tomorrow, and trusting God with a story I never expected.

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A Christian man sits quietly in his small apartment after work reading his Bible, reflecting on surrendering his marriage to God.

Releasing What I Cannot Restore

What happens when you’ve prayed, waited, sought counsel, and done everything you know to save your marriage, but nothing changes? This is the story of ending my 40-day stand, releasing what I cannot restore, and entrusting the future to God.

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My marriage is dead.

My Marriage Is Dead…

After nearly a year of separation, I reached the place where I believe my marriage is dead. But Scripture reminds us that God has always specialized in bringing life to dead things, from the valley of dry bones to Lazarus to the resurrection of Jesus Christ. This is an honest reflection on grief, faith, and learning to trust God when hope feels gone.

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The Father's Day I Never Expected

The Father’s Day I Never Expected

Father’s Day is supposed to be filled with laughter, memories, and time with your children. But what happens when you’re a father watching those moments happen from a distance? This is my journey of grief, faith, and trusting God to restore what was lost.

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